Recognizing Red Flags: Guiding Teens Toward Safe Relationships

Recognizing Interpersonal Violence in Teen Dating

In our previous article, we defined interpersonal violence in the context of teenage dating. Red flags can include emotional and psychological changes, such as shifts in behavior, depression, or anxiety. Academic performance and relationships with friends and family can also be negatively affected.

Helping Teens Navigate Relationships

Information is Key

To help teens foster healthy relationships, start by gathering information from various sources. Understanding teen dating from their perspective is crucial. Be prepared for spontaneous conversations about dating and relationships. Exploring resources on the internet can provide you with topics to discuss, helping differentiate between healthy and unhealthy relationships.

Recognize the Red Flags

Understanding the warning signs of Teen Dating Violence (TDV) is essential. Websites dedicated to teen dating, such as LoveIsRespect.org, offer valuable insights into the characteristics of unhealthy relationships and encourage teens to make healthy choices.

Establishing Boundaries

Boundaries are invisible lines that define how people expect to be treated and what they will tolerate. They are essential for establishing personal space and respect, deterring controlling or harmful behavior. Once teens establish their own boundaries, they must learn to communicate them confidently while respecting others' boundaries. This step empowers them to assert their independence, foster mutual respect, and identify manipulative or abusive behavior. Healthy boundaries lead to balanced, respectful relationships where both partners feel safe and valued.

Supporting teens in understanding, establishing, communicating, and maintaining good boundaries is challenging but crucial. It helps build trust, keeps communication lines open, and empowers them to make healthy choices confidently.

Looking Ahead

In our next article, we will discuss the effects of unhealthy relationships on teens and the available resources to help. For more information or assistance, contact Steps to Hope, the domestic violence and sexual assault center serving Polk County, NC, and Upstate SC.